DATE A MAN WHO DREAMS...

Date a man who doesn't spend his money on drinks, or clothes, or video games, but saves what he has to go on adventures and pursue his dreams. He might have problems dealing with every day things but no one sees the possibilities life holds like he does. This is a man who is ready for anything, who will drop anything on a moment's notice to run away and get lost somewhere with you, or show up unannounced to whisk you away on some crazy adventure. Date a man who sees the world in millions of colours, who has his head on the clouds and his feet on the ground.

Date a man who hasn't got the money to spoil you or shower you with gifts but finds a way to do it anyway. You can trust that he'll find a way to touch your heart and make you feel special in new ways. He knows that words and gifts aren't what matters. Every time he gives you something or writes to you, he is giving you a piece of his soul. And every time you give him something or write to him, he will truly treasure it and love the effort you put into choosing the gift and the words.

Date a man who sees how amazing you are even if you don't see it yourself, who sees how good things could be for you. Because a man like this who can see the end goal, the big picture, will keep on going because no obstacle can compare to what lies ahead. He will dream up incredible fantasies that the two of you can bring to life together. He will take you to places other people can't even imagine. Date a man who believes in you, because he will help you believe as well. He will see echoes of you in every thing of beauty, and he sees beauty in every thing. A man like this will always think you are the most beautiful girl in the world and will always be there for you.

Date a man who reads books, who watches films and cartoons, who laughs at stupid jokes and knows when to fall into a reverential silence and drink in the moment with you. You can just be yourself with him and he will just be himself. He will understand why you love the things you love and he will appreciate them and love them, too, even his own passions lie elsewhere. He understands your whim and desires, because he has seen them acted out in his mind. And whatever the scenario, no matter how bad things get, he sees how the story ends, he knows that all tragedies are overcome, all villains vanquished and fears are banished, no matter how desperate the situation may appear. Better still, date a man who writes.

Date a man who can't be pigeon holed into any category, who can mingle in any crowd but doesn't fit in any one's scene. He is an individual, a man who knows what it takes to stand out from the crowd and who doesn't mind being judged or thought of as different. That's why he will never judge you. That's why he will always see you as a person as your own, as a unique and wonderful individual.

Fail him. Let him down. Hurt him. He will do the same to you. But he knows that this is just how things go. He knows that life is made up of ups and downs. He will understand that when you lash out at him or push him away, there are many reasons why. Instead of getting mad, he will make things right. He knows when to apologize and admit to making mistakes. He is also quick to forgive because he knows how easy it is to make mistakes. He understands that your flaws and vulnerabilities make you beautiful and strong.

He knows that perfect harmony doesn't exist. He knows that you see this, too. He sees beauty and freedom in this and wants to help you see it, too. He knows fear and embraces it. He knows sadness. He knows his many flaws. He is prepared to adapt and to change because he respects your values and your opinions. He knows that nobody is perfect but that doesn't stop him from trying to do his best. He knows that love needs to be worked for, that relationships are constant flow from love and laughter to arguments and conflict, that like all things, the good times come with the bad, and that the dancing and loving are worth the fighting. He wants you to be happy even if it means not being with you, but in his heart he believes that he can make you happy like nobody else and so he will do anything to be with you.

Date a man who remembers every little thing about you, who is intuitive, who can see when you're happy or sad, when you need cheering up or when you want to get away from it all or just forget every thing for a while. He sees every thing about you. He understands that you will be a different person from moment to moment, that you will change your mind and your mood without warning. He knows that you can switch between being a baller shot caller to an artistic amateur in a blink of an eye, and that they are all part of who you are. He loves and pays attention to every aspect of your personality, from the girl who needs to be cuddled and cared for to the woman with her own needs and desires.

Date a man who fights to be in your life no matter what. A man who values you and believes he should be with you. This kind of man will always be there for you when the times are tough. Date a man who is always looking out for you even when you are not together or you cannot see him. Date a man who will always believe you should be together, a man who will never give up on you.

Date a man who knows that this isn't about him, but about you. A man who loves you with his heart and soul.

Date a man who dreams. Who dreams about you.

Or better yet, date a man who lives his dreams.